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And then tomorrow came....

Okay. First off. If your going to let someone "Go" have the decency to do it WHILE they are still at work. Don't make them get ready the next day and drive there just to tell them what you should have told them the day before. Its CRAP.

Tomorrow came. As much as I did not want it to, it did. With it came what I was thinking was about to come... Just like I said you cannot live for today. Not completely. If you could/did, well if I could, I would not care that my husband just lost his job. BIG DEAL. I am living for today, and today all the bills are paid there is food in the fridge and were doing fine.... I have to look forward to tomorrow, or well next week, when the mail comes and wants me to pay for the lights we've used and all that good stuff. Ahhhhhh. If only I could live for today.

So he was fired. Why. Apparently he called a co-worker a bitch. She probably is one. Does she realize she just got a man with FOUR children and a wife and a brand new mortgage fired? Does she care? Probably not. For that reason she IS a bitch. I have been called names at work. BIG DAMN DEAL. I mean no its not nice, but through out life people are going to call you things or say things about you. Life sucks. Did no one ever tell her this? I would like to.

I am not saying he did call her a bitch either, because he says he did not. As his wife I am supposed to believe that. Frankly he is not a very good liar either, so I tend to believe him. Although I would like to go and call her a few names right now myself. Fired over a name calling? I am surprised he was not arrested for "terroristic threatening" or something as well.

What ever. Live for today. Today the bills are paid, and we are fine. Tomorrow, well not tomorrow because that is Sunday, but Monday, Hopefully by some miracle he will get hired on the spot somewhere fantastic, and even KEEP this job a while... Although when you fill out an application and the last 3 jobs have Reason for leaving "FIRED" it really does not look like your the best person for the job, now does it?

Did I mention I have had the same job for 6 years? Never been written up, sent home early? Yeah. That probably does not help matters much right now though... Except for the fact that I at least, have, a job. For now. Who knows what tomorrow will bring us right? Live for today.

Today is stressful. I want to live for last week, last week was good. :O)

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