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Another "wild" weekend!

 So wild in fact there was not time to blog about it until now. Even now there is not really time, but I am taking it anyway.

 The most excitement. Police at my door. Again. Yep. Just hand that mother of the year award right over. This is like the 3rd time a cop has shown up AT my door for one of my children.

 The boys were camping, just us girls. Destiny had just left for her home coming dance. I was pantless and relaxing on the couch when someone knocked at the door (which was open, just the screen shut) Hannah walked up to the door and comes back to me. "Mom. Its a police." She says very somber. O M G. The first thing that went through my mind (this is horrible) was Dear Lord, the child JUST LEFT! I immediately figured he was there for Destiny. Then my mom popped into my mind after all her boyfriend drama.

 So I have to walk by my open door, in order to get to my pants that I am not wearing. As I walk by I first realize it is, indeed a police. I motion to the fact that I am not wearing pants, and then put my finger up to let him know I will be to the door in a moment. Stick pants on and shaking, answer my door.

 Turns out when Destiny got her new phone, and her old phone still had charge left Hannah was playing on it, games and the camera still work. It says "EMERGENCY CALL ONLY" or whatever and if you click that, it goes straight to 911. She had pushed that, and hung up when a picture showed of an ambulance. She didn't realize she'd even called, or connected. So although I thought it was VERY awesome that a no longer used phone without a SIM card in it would still lead them to my home... I was stressed the hell out that a police officer had been to my door.

 I then realized that Promise, my angel child, is the only one who has not had police show up at my door (yet). She has walked around all weekend, shining her halo. Proud to be my angelic child for the time being...

 My mom's ex went to jail, and got out of jail. He is now saying while he was in jail someone, broke into his home. Family members say he's not in his right mind. He's drinking again I know that, as he had admitted it to me earlier when he was still calling me. Its a really sucky situation and I wish it could just end somehow. Its sad really.

 So other than the cops showing up, the weekend was pretty uneventful. I was a taxi driver, on a moped. That was quite the fun time. I feel under appreciated and over worked at home. At work I feel like, oh wait. I forgot I cant blog about how I feel about work. Well I feel like I was the only one there today, again. Another Monday alone. Whatever, I needed the money so it worked out just fine.

 Tomorrow is a new day, and this week, this week I am OFF on Thursday, Destiny has her orthodontist appointment. I am going to sleep in and relax and enjoy my mid week day off, especially since I have to work on Sunday.

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