Bailey boo decided that this year he wanted to attend "normal" school. Not the small Charter he's gone to ever since kindergarten. His sisters have all stepped away from there as well in Middle School, and I guess I thought it would be better he switch first year of middle and be "the new kid" along with everyone else. So after he went back and forth a few times, "normal" school it is.
Now I am thinking he is regretting his choice. Its only the fourth day but he sits alone at lunch or with people who just sit there for a place to sit. He does not talk to anyone and does not have friends. This did not happen with the girls, but they are both "social butterflies" Bailey mentioned that "at least he had friends" at his old school... Thing is he would always say he didn't have friends at his old school, even though teachers and other kids were always like HI BAILEY. So I am unsure if he really doesn't have friends, or does here at the new school.
I am faced with the wondering if I let him make the right choice, should I have kept him in the smaller school, should I let him go back, if that is even an option at this point....I hate thinking my baby boy is walking around without friends to talk to all day at school... Then on the other hand maybe he will devote more time to learning? But you have to have fun as well in order to want to go and learn!
Being a mom is not easy work :O/
Now I am thinking he is regretting his choice. Its only the fourth day but he sits alone at lunch or with people who just sit there for a place to sit. He does not talk to anyone and does not have friends. This did not happen with the girls, but they are both "social butterflies" Bailey mentioned that "at least he had friends" at his old school... Thing is he would always say he didn't have friends at his old school, even though teachers and other kids were always like HI BAILEY. So I am unsure if he really doesn't have friends, or does here at the new school.
I am faced with the wondering if I let him make the right choice, should I have kept him in the smaller school, should I let him go back, if that is even an option at this point....I hate thinking my baby boy is walking around without friends to talk to all day at school... Then on the other hand maybe he will devote more time to learning? But you have to have fun as well in order to want to go and learn!
Being a mom is not easy work :O/
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