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We Really Shouldn't Be Doing This....

So I am a waitress. I have quite a few "regulars" having been there for over 6 years now. There is one customer, who has been a almost every day regular since day one. That is right. He has been there nearly every day for 6 years. He is there as often as I am. He always sits with me. He knows my kids by name, Tim, and I his.

I have waited on his father, his wife, his son, his sister in law. He and I chit chat quite a bit as he comes in daily normally when we are not quite so busy any more. I chat with him instead of cleaning up... Shhhh don't tell the boss ;o)

So recently his wife and him started having problems, well he did not really even know they were, she just moved out and filed for divorce. Turns out, she has a boyfriend. Well their son does not like the boyfriend, or the IDEA of his mom having one... So to try to make "dad" look like the bad guy too, she brought up "him and I" As if we were doing something wrong!!!

That same day he told me this, Tim was coming in with the kids to eat dinner. I told "mitch" Oh you better leave... Were going to get caught! HAH! Good stuff. I told him we really should not do this... Him come in and be a customer, me wait on him... It is causing problems for our relationships! :OP How silly can a woman be? Seriously. I have waited on her, she liked me, even made him tip me bigger when she would come and eat!!! She is just being silly and pulling at straws to try to make him out to be the bad guy when he's obviously not. Funny stuff.

On a not so funny note, though. I found out one of my other customers, who comes in with the "Lions Club" is sick. he is in the hospital. I knew that he was, but he is old and I did not figure it was anything major. Today they told me they do not think he will make it, and if he does, his life will not be like it was, he will be homebound. NO more "lioning" for him. It is very sad. It got me to thinking about how many elderly customers I have, and how often times I have no idea what happens to them when they stop coming in. Its hard!

So that's life in Clorieville for the last little while. Nothing major going on. Just being told I am having an affiar and all that. Good thing Tim knows about it and does not mind. HA. Life sure can be funny sometimes.

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